disabledgirlism:

it’s pretty common for people discussing rape culture within feminist discourse to conveniently leave out disabled girls, but this is just a casual reminder that disabled women are far more likely to be sexually assaulted, abused or raped than able-bodied women. on top of that, 50% of deaf girls and 54% of deaf boys have been sexually abused or assaulted. so please stop leaving us out of your discussion about rape culture.

(via selfcareafterrape)



ethiopienne:

on today’s episode of me having feelings, a series of tweets about “anti-rape nail polish.”

ethiopienne:

on today’s episode of me having feelings, a series of tweets about “anti-rape nail polish.”

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obstinategenesis:

Can we stop calling letting go of an abusive past forgiveness? It isn’t. It doesn’t have to be. You don’t have to forgive someone to abandon your anger and grief

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mark-my-territory:

firstnametainted:

GIRLS — if you hit, slap, belittle, kick, punch, choke, throw things at, or control your boyfriends, you are the abuser. You are not a “strong woman”, “empowered”, or anything similar. You are hurting him. Even if his muscles are strong enough to take it, a hit or slap from someone you love is an emotional blow.

yesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

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magnoliha:

tempeh-princess:

little things that help ease symptoms of depression:

  • turn the lights on and open a window
  • eat something healthy and drink ice cold water
  • find a comforting album to listen to whenever things get bad
  • take a long, relaxing bath
  • do yourself up in full make up and hair
  • be around people, even if you don’t think it will help
  • watch something funny on netflix
  • wear your favorite/most comfortable outfit
  • immerse yourself in a hobby like drawing
  • lose yourself in a really good book or movie

this might be helpful


http://www.upworthy.com/when-someone-can-say-these-words-with-a-smile-on-their-face-its-a-sign-to-hit-the-road?c=ufb1

We’re not sure who sent this in, but thank you! It’s a *PSA*/ short film on emotionally abusive relationships. It’s in French, but there are subtitles. Here at Uniwarrior, we talk frequently about emotional abuse in relationships, so, we thought it would be great to post this being that not everyone knows what emotional abuse looks like. 

It can be very subtle and may take years to notice. Take a look and tell us what you think! If you have anything to share with us, send it in our submit box!


designrevolution:

Courtenay McKay created a series of posters for the Gender Based Violence Prevention Project (GBVPP) at the University of Alberta to spread awareness about rape culture.

The Gender Based Violence Prevention Project is a new project of the Students’ Union that promotes a campus free of gender based violence. Gender Based Violence exists in both visible and invisible ways on our campus and affects the lives of many University students, staff, faculty, and community members. Through education, awareness, and institutional change, we are striving to create a campus free of gender based violence where everyone can feel safe and supported.”

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realtalksexadvice:

Let’s talk about consent! (Again.) 
What is consent?
Consent is freely given. 
Consent means yes
ONLY yes means yes
What isn’t consent?
Consent is not ambiguous
Consent is not coerced
Consent is not implied 
Consent is not assumed
Consent is not a given no matter how many times you or they have had sex before.
Consent is not the absence of a no
How do I get consent?
Ask! “Is this okay?” “May I do this?” “Can I…”
Keep asking! “Still okay?” “Do you want to keep going?” “May I do this now?” 
Remember: only a yes is yes, the absence of a no does not equal consent. No can come in many forms, if your partner is non-responsive, disassociated, pushing you away, trying to get you to do something else, drunk/high, under age or otherwise incapacitated: THAT MEANS NO. 
Tell your friends. 

realtalksexadvice:

Let’s talk about consent! (Again.) 

What is consent?

  • Consent is freely given. 
  • Consent means yes
  • ONLY yes means yes

What isn’t consent?

  • Consent is not ambiguous
  • Consent is not coerced
  • Consent is not implied 
  • Consent is not assumed
  • Consent is not a given no matter how many times you or they have had sex before.
  • Consent is not the absence of a no

How do I get consent?

  • Ask! “Is this okay?” “May I do this?” “Can I…”
  • Keep asking! “Still okay?” “Do you want to keep going?” “May I do this now?” 

Remember: only a yes is yes, the absence of a no does not equal consent. No can come in many forms, if your partner is non-responsive, disassociated, pushing you away, trying to get you to do something else, drunk/high, under age or otherwise incapacitated: THAT MEANS NO. 

Tell your friends. 


fixyourwritinghabits:

creativesocialworker:

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Reblogging in honor of the last day of Social Work Month.  These arent ranked in any particular order so check them all out.  If I missed you just let me know!

yo I’m reblogging this because it can seriously help folks out, definitely a list worth keeping.

fixyourwritinghabits:

creativesocialworker:

Social Worker Tumblrs

Therapist Tumblrs

Psychology Tumblrs

Recovery/Support Tumblrs

Reblogging in honor of the last day of Social Work Month.  These arent ranked in any particular order so check them all out.  If I missed you just let me know!

yo I’m reblogging this because it can seriously help folks out, definitely a list worth keeping.

(via fuckyeahsexeducation)


micdotcom:

Forget the spreadsheet, here’s an easy flowchart to know if a women owes you sex

Microsoft Excel took a turn for the explicit this week when the Internet learned the once-innocuous office tool was being used in a dispiriting new bro-trend: using the software to track of the number of times their partners refuse sex. Yes, #sexspreadsheets are a thing, presumably because some men still believe that owning of a penis entitles them to unlimited sexy times.
Sorry, guys, that’s just not the way the world works | Follow micdotcom 

micdotcom:

Forget the spreadsheet, here’s an easy flowchart to know if a women owes you sex

Microsoft Excel took a turn for the explicit this week when the Internet learned the once-innocuous office tool was being used in a dispiriting new bro-trend: using the software to track of the number of times their partners refuse sex. Yes, #sexspreadsheets are a thing, presumably because some men still believe that owning of a penis entitles them to unlimited sexy times.

Sorry, guys, that’s just not the way the world works | Follow micdotcom 

(via fuckyeahsexeducation)


blacktinabelcher:

scrapes:

theafrocentrics:

saashepsu:

ourafrica:

I’m so upset, angry and just completely disgusted about this story!


Matthew Durham, 19, allegedly confessed to sexually assaulting several children at an orphanage in Kenya, police said. (Credit: KFOR)

An Edmond teenager faces a possible life in prison sentence after authorities say they learned about shocking crimes he allegedly committed on an African mission trip.

The suspect was volunteering at a Kenyan children’s home when he allegedly raped and molested a number of young children.

According to court records, 19-year-old Matthew Durham confessed to raping several young girls, forcing some boys to perform oral sex on him and even making other kids watch.

“This is a young man in our community that made choices to exploit children in an orphanage,” said United States Attorney Sanford Coats. “It’s a true tragedy all the way around.”

The 19-year-old suspect traveled overseas with a group called Upendo.

Upendo is an organization that assists neglected Kenyan kids by providing food, housing, clothes and religion.

While Durham volunteered to travel overseas several times over the last two years, on his last visit, the criminal complaint alleges, “Durham requested to stay at the children’s home in an ‘overflow bunk’ rather than at an offsite facility.”

During that visit, several alleged victims claimed Durham “often touched them in a sexual manner or told them to touch themselves while he watched.”

Once confronted, Durham allegedly came clean.

“A caretaker at the orphanage noticed something wasn’t right and confronted Mr. Durham. He admitted to some of the acts,” said Coats.

The affidavit continues, “The victims are believed to be both boys and girls between the ages of four and nine, at least one of whom is HIV positive.”

Prosecutors say while the alleged sex crimes were committed overseas, Durham can be held accountable for the crimes in Oklahoma.

Durham is being held without bond.

Judgement is Death!!!!!!!

This is disgusting.

white people stay losing

nasty ass

This is disgusting. These are the type of people that give a bad name to those who really want to help.